New Year’s Hookup Guide Part 2
December 28, 2007

Remember, New Year’s Eve is one of the best nights of the year to hook up.
This is the ONE NIGHT that it’s finally ‘okay’ for women to act out on their romantic and physical desires.
Also remember the most important thing is to have FUN!
Tip #6: Don’t overdo the banter!
I affectionately call New Years Eve amateur night.
I don’t mean to disrespect anyone with that statement - I’m just trying to accurately assess what makes meeting girls on this night different. Clearly one of the biggest distinctions is that this is the one night where EVERYONE goes out.
Frankly, many of the people you’ll see out drinking, dancing, and hooking up haven’t been out all year.
And I not just talking about guys either.
Many of the hot women you’ll meet on New Years hardly ever go out. This is especially
true with the most successful, most in-demand women since they are often too busy working on their career and their bodies to hit the bar every weekend.
The end result is that many desirable women out on New Years are much less exposed to the
attraction techniques we teach.
That means you probably need a lot *less* of your attraction techniques then normal.
Remember, once a woman likes you, you need to move into rapport, escalate things physically, or risk losing her interest.
After all, women want to hook up on New Years as much as we do, and once she likes you
she’s thinking “What’s next?” If you answer question with more entertaining stories or harmless flirting she is likely to lose interest.
In this environment whatever skill you have will be much more effective.
Now these women aren’t that easy to spot. Unlike the guys who rarely hit the singles scene, these girls know how to dress, how to socialize, and usually even know how to dance.
So take it easy with the attraction techniques and escalate early, you won’t need as much as you might think.
Tip #7: After you make out with a girl, figure out the logistics ASAP.
If you want to bring a girl home with you, you definitely don’t want to wait too long to broach the subject. If you are going to meet lot’s of resistance, it’s better to know that early on while you can still move on if you choose. If you wait till the end of the night, you could miss out.
Find out who she is with, what their plans are, and what commitments she has sooner rather then later. Is she driving anyone home? Is anyone planning on giving her a ride? Is she there with protective friends or relatives that you might have to make a good impression on?
These are all questions I like to get to the bottom of right away after a little new year’s kissing. No waiting required.
The after party is at your house, right?
So all you need to do is say, “Hey, we’re having an after party later, did you guys all come together?” Her answer will give you an early indication of what the chances of her coming back with you are. If you do this early in the night, you are not looking for a “Yes”, just a “maybe” and some more information about what the logistics are.
Tip #8: Keep an eye on your target
I’m a big fan of “takeaways” (also known as giving girls “the gift of missing you”) but I am real careful using these techniques in extremely chaotic environments.
If you’ve found the girl you *really* want, keep an eye on her!
Leave her for a second and you may lose sight of her. Lose sight of her, and she could be lip locked with another guy by the time you find her again.
Trust me even after you’ve met another girl, you’ll still think about the one that got away.
Tip #9: Have fun!
Don’t work so hard on your game and push your goals so much that you forget to have a good
time. Being the funnest guy in the room will do more for your night, and your results, then all the other tips combined.
Wishing you a great New Year with women!
Your Friend,
Lance Mason



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