How To Get Her Phone Number When She Wants to Just Chat

Written by Dave M of InsiderInternetDating.com

One of the BIGGEST mistakes guys make online and a question I get asked a lot is: ‘Dave, what do you do if a girl doesn’t want to give you her number?’

‘Dave, I asked her for her number and she responded with asking me to chat… What do I do?’

This is one of the BIGGEST mistakes most guys make and one that really causes them to get
lousy results online.

Odds are you’re guilty of doing this.

And If you are then you REALLY need to listen up and read this email from top to bottom
because it will help you overcome this common test with not only flying colors, but also her phone number.

So what’s the quick answer? You need to stick to your guns and not give into what she wants.

Remember you need to be in control.

Women are going to test you left and right in all kinds of subtle ways its their way of seeing
what you’re made of, to see if you’re for real or just a fake.

And wanting to chat online vs. talking on the phone is one of them!

They try to test you to see who’s in control.

See my thinking is that most women that are REALLY interested in you are NOT going to put up much resistance to giving your their number.

Some will, but 95% of the time if they’re interested in you, they’ll give you their number. (this is whyusing the Insider Internet Dating program is so helpful, it shows you HOW to create profiles and emails that make women INTRIGUED, and want to get to know you better)

Testing you by wanting to chat vs. talking on the phone is a VERY common test women throw
out at guys online and most guys fall on their faces and fail this one miserably.

It’s something you might be having issues dealing with RIGHT NOW and not knowing exactly how to overcome it.

Fear not, because I’m going to show you a REAL EMAIL exchange with me an a girl off one of the dating sites.

But more importantly than that, you get to SEE EXACTLY how I dealt with it and overcame the test.

Seeing is believing.

About this girl: She’s pretty attractive, I’d say from the pictures I’d give her an 8.5.

Here’s what happened:

I sent her the standard SECOND email I use and asked for the number.

HER RESPONSE:

Dave,

Let’s chat first ok? How can we chat?

MY RESPONSE:

I dont have any IM’s….

they make you unproductive.

Not sure what to tell ya.

HER RESPONSE

ok You won. xxx-xxx-xxxx Christine

This is a REAL email exchange and I went from her testing me to giving in.

What do most guys do?

They don’t have the CONFIDENCE in what they’re doing so….

They give the woman their IM screen name and then they’re STUCK because they’re doing what
the woman wants and she knows she’s RUNNING THE SHOW.

Heres a dose of reality:

If a girl is not even willing to give you her phone number after being interested its because one of a few things.

1. She’s not really THAT interested.
2. She’s not a flexible woman (i.e. she’s too structured).
3. She’s testing me.

If she’s not really that interested in you then do you REALLY want her?

Probably not. Why waste your time?

There’s about 25 + million women out there, so why worry about any one in particular?

If she’s not flexible, then why would you want her? Odds are she’s not really that much fun.

If she’s testing you then thats expected and you now know EXACTLY how to deal with her.

Back to that example.

What I did was not give her any way out. She’s got 2 choices here.

1. Talk on the phone

2. NOT talk on the phone.

Either way I win.

See I don’t place too much value on meeting one particular woman. If I meet her, great…. if not? thats great too.

This is the mindset you should start using.

By doing this it allows you to focus on the process rather than focus on her and get all caught up into her.

And THAT is what causes a woman to become intrigued… because you’re not coming off needy
like 99% of the guys she either talks to or meets.

Remember, There’s ALWAYS another woman to meet.

The woman wants to chat online but you’re now telling her you don’t have the programs and
don’t use them.

She’ll try to test you and you now overcame it using a similar response to the one I showed
you above.

WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?

When you do call her she’s going to be VERY interested in talking to you because she knows you’re NOT some wuss.

Great stuff, isn’t it?

If I could show you one simple technique that in 2 minutes would increase the number of
responses you currently get on ANY dating site by 32% would you do it?

What if I had a collection of these techniques that took me years to test and perfect, would
you want to use them?

Of course, and that’s why guys are going crazy about this.

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For years I’ve kept this information quiet.

You have probably heard the buzz that I finally released my ‘Insider Internet Dating Program’ to the public.

Dating coach Rod Cortez said: ‘In the first month, I set up TEN DATES in one week and have actually been turning women down because I’m so BUSY meeting new hotties. ‘

David De’Angleo calls me an online dating ‘Specialist’.

This simple multimedia program is probably the most powerful thing I’ve ever created.

Read that again. These simple techniques will increase the number of women who respond to
your emails and the number of dates you get by 35% (at least). How can you do this?

Well, it’s quite easy to use, and purely scientific.

These aren’t just theories and guesses - these are *specific* things you can do right now that will increase the number of women who respond to your emails and the number of dates you get.

And each of these techniques have been *scientifically* proven.

It reveals the results of years of research conducted by me online showing *exactly* the simple techniques I use that dramatically increase the number of women who respond to your emails and the number of dates you get.

One of these techniques increased my responses by a clearly measurable 412%.

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To your dating success,

Dave M.