Flirting with The Cute Starbucks Girl

Here’s a great tip that will be sure to make developing your skills with women easier then ever.

Here it is: Create a world in which women EXPECT you to flirt with them every day, where they literally force you to banter with them even when you’re feeling down, in a bad mood, or just not particularly social.

It’s like having a hottie call you every so often for some fun banter. If it happens on a regular basis, pretty soon you find that you are ALWAYS ready for action when a new girl come along who you’d like to meet.

No more hesitation, no more fear that you are not ‘In the right mood’ to meet women or that you ‘need to prepare yourself before talking to a beautiful women.

So how do you do it?

It’s actually very easy. Whenever you see a woman who is somehow connected to your daily, weekly, or monthly routine, you MAKE SURE you flirt with her.

Ya know, that nice married woman you work with every so often, the teenager at your local coffee shop, or the older lady at the dry cleaners.

The girls at your gym, favorite restaurants, parking garage, hotel complex. You name it - If you see a girl once a month, she’s a future banter partner waiting to be recruited,

Any woman will do, since most of them aren’t women you are going to date - THESE women are you’re dating COACHES.

And you don’t have pay them a thing.

The easiest way to make this happen is to start bantering with her during the very first interaction. That makes flirting later very natural since you have set up the expectation.

It could look something like this:

You (at Starbucks): “Umm, I’ll take a large pepperoni with extra cheese.

Girl at Starbucks: Umm… we don’t serve pizza

Me: Ya know what, this thing between us (gesturing back and forth) just isn’t working out for me. You’re a really sweet girl and everything - I just feel like I’m not really getting what I need
right now…

Girl: (Laughing)

You: Alright Sweetie, I’ll have a large coffee half-decaf. My name is Lance by the way.

…

That last part is important. Call her Sweetie or, if you prefer, Darlin’. Not her proper name.

Now every time you see her you can call her Sweetie and kick off the next round of banter.

Easy huh?

Now, Bantering with a girl who you have interacted with before is a bit tricker.

You’ve already made a first impression as a guy who is NOT an incorrigible flirt, so if you just come out of the blue and start bantering it might seem a bit creepy.

Here’s what I did with a girl at my local burger joint.

She’s was kinda cute but NOT the kind of girl I was really interested in. I must have been preoccupied because I didn’t flirt with her the first time I met her.

The burgers are damn tasty though, and I found myself going back there over and over and NOT flirting with her.

Now that’s just plain bad karma.

So the next time I went and she was at the counter I said, “Hey, I’ve been thinking about our relationship.”

Now THAT got her attention.

Then I said “I feel like I’m not really getting what I need. I mean the burgers are great and everything, but I’ve found myself wanting a bit more.

Burger girl: Really?

Me: I’ve even found myself walking by the Burger King, wondering what it might be like to go talk to some of the girls in there for a while.

Burger girl: Burger King - No way!

Me: You know what I’d love? I want you to smile ear to ear when you see me come in the door.

Burger girl: (Smiling)

Me: That’s right, just like that… Alright Sweetie I’ll take a chicken sandwich with a side salad.

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That’s it. Once you’ve called her Sweetie that one time you can do it for life. The great thing about walking up to a girl and saying ‘Hey Sweetie’ is that you will automatically start flirting with her - you just can’t help it.

Remember, this is NOT a way to get a girl to go home with you or to meet you for a date. This is just a way to populate your world with women who EXPECT you to flirt with them.

They will keep you in a good mood at all times, and make sure you are sharp when Mrs. Once-In-a-Lifetime walks by.

Think of them as you own army of banter instructors that have been placed for your convenience in all the spots you go on a regular basis.

And don’t forget to call them “Sweetie”.

Now go meet some women,

Your friend,
Lance Mason